The 2010 list can be found here …
http://www.adrianparr.com/?p=115
Ok, I know it is a bit late through the year to be posting this, but here is a round-up of conferences and events that relate directly and in-directly to the Flash Platform and digital media in some way. This give you some idea of what happens when and where around the world and what to look out for in 2010. If you want me to add your event then just let me know about it (add a comment at the bottom of this page).
January 2009

Flex Camp Chicago
January 22nd – 23rd, 2009
Chicago, Illinois, US
February 2009

FITC Amsterdam 2009
February 22nd – 24th, 2009
Amsterdam, Netherlands

FOWA – Future Of Web Apps
February 22nd – 24th, 2009
Miami, Florida, US

Flex Camp Amsterdam
February 25th, 2009
Amsterdam, The Netherlands

Lift09
February 25th – 27th, 2009
Geneva, Switzerland

Flash Camp London
February 26th, 2009
London, UK
March 2009

Flex Camp Ottawa
March 3rd, 2009
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

TOCA ME
March 7th, 2009
Munich, Germany

SXSW – Interactive
March 13th – 17th, 2009
Austin, Texas, US

Maker Faire Newcastle
March 14th – 15th, 2009
Newcastle, UK

MIX09
March 18th – 20th, 2009
Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Flash Gaming Summit
March 22nd, 2009
San Francisco, California, US
April 2009

The Next Web Conference 2009
April 15th – 17th, 2009
Amsterdam, The Netherlands

NAB Show
April 18th – 23rd, 2009
Las Vegas, Nevada, US

FITC Toronto 2009
April 25th – 28th, 2009
Toronto, Ontario, Canada

FFK09
April 27th 30th, 2009
Cologne, Germany
May 2009

11th flashconference 2009
May 7th, 2009
Stuttgart, Germany

OFFF
May 7th – 9th, 2009
Oeiras, Portugal

Thinking Digital
May 13th – 15th, 2009
Gateshead, UK

Multi-Mania
May 18th – 19th, 2009
Kortrijk, Belgium

360|Flex
May 18th – 20th, 2009
Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Flash On Tap
May 28th – 30th, 2009
Boston, Massachusetts, US

Flash Camp San Francisco
May 29th, 2009
San Francisco, California, US

BarCampLeeds
May 30th – 31st, 2009
Leeds, UK

Maker Faire Bay Area
May 30th – 31st, 2009
San Francisco, California, US
June 2009

Flashbelt
June 7th – 10th, 2009
Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

Flash Camp Warsaw
June 9th, 2009
Warsaw, Poland

REMIX09 Australia
June 11th, 2009
Sydney, Australia

Flash Camp Birmingham
June 16th, 2009
Birmingham, UK

Digital Media Conference East
June 25th 2009
Washington, D.C., US

Flash at the Lake
June 26th – 27th, 2009
Zurich, Switzerland
July 2009

TEDGlobal
July 21st – 24th, 2009
Oxford, UK
August 2009

SIGGRAPH
August 3rd – 7th, 2009
New Orleans, Louisiana, US

CFUnited
August 12th – 15th, 2009
Leesburg, Virginia, US

Flash Camp Atlanta
August 28th, 2009
Atlanta, Georgia, US
September 2009

ARS Electronica
September 3rd – 8th, 2009
Linz, Austria

dConstruct
September 4th, 2009
Brighton, UK

Flex Camp Rimini
September 5th, 2009
Rimini, Italy

BarCampBrighton
September 5th – 6th, 2009
Brighton, UK

onedotzero – adventures in motion
September 9th – 13th, 2009
London, UK

IBC2009
September 10th – 14th, 2009
Amsterdam, Netherlands

Flash Camp St. Louis
September 11th, 2009
St. Louis, Missouri, US

FITC Mobile 2009
September 13th – 14th, 2009
Toronto, Ontario, Canada

The Actionscript Conference
September 14th – 15th, 2009
Singapore

Lift Asia 09
September 17th – 18th, 2009
Jeju, Korea

Flash Platform Code Camp Wellington
September 19th, 2009
Wellington, New Zealand

Flash on the Beach
September 20th – 23rd, 2009
Brighton, UK

London Digital Week
September 21st – 27th, 2009
London, UK

i-Design 09
September 24th, 2009
London, UK

FOWA – Future Of Web Apps
September 30th – October 2nd, 2009
London, UK
October 2009

LAFlashapoloozastock IV
October 3rd, 2009
Venice Beach, California, US

FITC Unconference @ MAX
October 4th – 7th, 2009
Los Angeles, California, US

360|MAX Unconference
October 4th – 7th, 2009
Los Angeles, California, US

Adobe MAX
October 4th – 7th, 2009
Los Angeles, California, US

Flashpitt
October 15th – 16th, 2009
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, US

Flash Camp Egypt
October 17th, 2009
New Cairo, Egypt

PLAY :: The Berkeley Digital Media Conference
October 17th, 2009
Berkeley, California, US

FITC Edmonton
October 17th – 18th, 2009
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Scotch on the Road
October 19th – 29th, 2009
Munich, Germany
Zurich, Switzerland
Milan, Italy
Amsterdam, The Netherlands
Brussels, Belgium
London, UK

Digital Media Conference West
October 28th, 2009
San Francisco, California, US

Playful
October 30th, 2009
London, UK
November 2009

VIEW Conference
November 4th – 7th, 2009
Turin, Italy

Flash Camp Philadelphia
November 7th, 2009
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

Latin Flash Tour
November 7th – 18th, 2009
Santiago, Chile
Buenos Aires, Argentina
Lima, Peru
Bogotá, Colombia
San Jose, Costa Rica
Mexico City, Mexico

RIA Unleashed : Boston
November 13th, 2009
Boston, Massachusetts, US

FOWD – Future Of Web Design
November 16th – 17th, 2009
New York, US

Flex Camp Wall Street
November 16th – 17th, 2009
New York, US

CaT London
November 19th, 2009
London, UK

FITC Tokyo
November 28th, 2009
Tokyo, Japan
December 2009

RIAdventure 360
December 6th – 13th, 2009
Depart from New Orleans, Louisiana, US then cruise around the Caribbean